In the wake of a grand jury report that detailed allegations of sex abuse by Catholic priests in Pennsylvania, experts here in Omaha are sharing information on how to prevent child sexual abuse.
According to Project Harmony one out of 10 children are sexually abused before their 18th birthday. That means that in any classroom or neighborhood full of children, there are kids who are silently bearing the burden of sexual abuse.
Whether you work with youth, are a parent or are simply a member of a community, it is highly likely that someone you know and care for has experienced, or is currently experiencing, child sexual abuse.
Project Harmony officials say the findings in Pennsylvania should open everyone's eyes to sexual abuse and the tendency of society to cover it up at the expense of our children.
“Child Abuse is a serious problem and it is happening right here in our community,” says Executive Director Gene Klein. “Anyone can have the opportunity to make a significant difference in the life of a child through the vision of what is possible, the vision of what a child’s future can and should look like. Together, we can end child abuse. But to really do this, we all have to have a stake in it. You are part of the solution.”
Project Harmony has outlined steps to prevent, recognize and react responsibly to child abuse.
1. Learn the facts. The facts about child abuse can be staggering, but understanding the risks children face can help you better protect them.
2. Minimize opportunity. More than 80% of child sexual abuse incidents occur when children are in isolated, one-on-one situations with adults or other youth. Make sure interactions can be observed and interrupted. Ask for protective best practices in schools and organizations that serve your children, including background checks and a code of conduct for staff and volunteers.
3. Talk about it. Open conversations with children about body safety and boundaries is one of the best defenses against child sexual abuse. Talk with children when they are young, and use proper names for body parts. Tell children what parts of the body others should not touch. Use examples with situations and people in their lives. Teach children that they have the right to tell any person “NO” to unwanted or uncomfortable touch.
4. Recognize the signs. Signs are often there, but you have to know what you’re looking for — signs can be physical, emotional or behavioral.
5. React responsibly. Be prepared to react calmly and responsibly if a child discloses abuse to you, or if you suspect or see that boundaries have been violated.
If you suspect a child has been abused or neglected, call 1-800-652-1999 (CPS Hotline) in Nebraska or local law enforcement. In Iowa, call 1-800-362-2178 (DHS Hotline) or local law enforcement.